A Question About Blogging Etiquette

It seems that most of the mom bloggers I read are attending BlogHer this weekend. And in preparation for this event, some have posted pictures of themselves so people will know them when they see them at BlogHer. And I've noticed that when they post these pics, most of their comments read, You're so cute or You are beautiful.

But all of these comments are from other women.

My question is: what do you want to hear from your male readers? Do you want them to say you're attractive (if they feel that way) or is that just too creepy? Should guys just keep their mouths shut?

Just curious.

And if I ever get stupid drunk brave enough to post a photo of myself, both sexes are free to tell me how smokin' hot I am. Or if I need to put a bag over my head.